Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Is it true that this situation exist in this world?


I am so bored. Doing nothing at home.

It is 3.09am. I am still awake. Cannot close my eyes. Just having a girl's talk with El, my girlfriend.

What else can I do? In the middle of a night. Or maybe I can say, in the very early morning. Haha.

I came across this entry, while I blogging through a few blogs. I don't have any idea who is the owner. But still I am attracted to read her entry.

In her entry, she pointed out about this question.

"Have you ever meet your soul mate after you already met someone?"



Frankly says, I am seriously never ever heard about this before. In real world. Yes, I did read through all the stories. But all of that were from a couple novels. Nothing to do with the real world. So, before this I just think that it all from fantasy. From imaginations.

Here I put the full entry from her blog.

You already met someone.Stung by love.He's all you're looking for.He takes care of you,adore you,accepting you as who you are,shared everything together and you even told your self-damn he's the ONE.And the step towards the great happy ending is not even something you'd call 'looking forward to it' anymore but its already there.Right in front of your eyes.

And suddenly there is HE is.
Another person jump into the picture and create another electricity sparks.At first you just think gosh he's hot;
"Oh I like that too~~!";
"Hey,thanks for being such a great listener";

...then after some conversations,companies and sharing thoughts;you began to wonder;you two had so much things in common-where have u been all this while?Why don't you come earlier?Hmm.....

From the fancy;you began to adore.

From calling each other buddy;he began to call you honey.

From a "just to say hi" text messages;it went to "missing you".

From saving his number as the member of 'BFF' group in your cellphone; he's now on your top list of speed dial.

From sharing hobbies and interests you guys now talking thru some love song lyrics.

There's also a vow like "If by 40years old we're both single;lets get married"
And from the sayings of "I'll definitely take leave to attend your wedding" suddenly he said "Why you dunt see me 1st?,why u have to have him?"

And that's where u got stucked.
One is surely love you unconditionally and without doubts will be a great father to your kids;
The other one is the type that you would kill to marry.Or even date.

Which way would you go?

For real babe. I don't think that there is a person who is getting stuck in between this kind of situation. If there is one, I am figuring out of how he/she gonna cope with this situation? Seriously, it is a damn situation. Where you have to kick your ass and make one best decision.

And the most important, the whatever decision he/she is going to make, must always be with the purpose to makes everyone happy. It is impossible rite? Because it is for sure that one heart will be hurt.

If you decide to choose to be with A, then B will get hurt.
If you decide to choose B as your life partner, definitely A will get hurt.
Or else you choose to leave both A and B. And you become the one who will getting hurt.

I couldn't think any further, because I've never been in that kind of situation. And of course I don't want to experience it. For real babe. Crazy!!!

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13 comments:

ZaliHazali on June 3, 2009 at 10:37 AM said...

ada banyak situasi di atas, mcm orang ckp, bdan dgn si a, tapi hati pada si b...
tapi, pentingnya buat pilihan,
your final decision today, akan tentukan haluan your future...erm...
so, ingat perenggan ini
blame the game, dont blame the player...kahkahkahalp

Cik Zizee on June 3, 2009 at 12:56 PM said...

i like it..
just blame the game...
don't blame the player...
cool babe...

Cik Zizee on June 3, 2009 at 1:10 PM said...

i like it..
just blame the game...
don't blame the player...
cool babe...

diyadeary on June 3, 2009 at 1:14 PM said...

adakah myself tu kawan ko beb?

errm.. i think the best way for this matter is sembahyang istiharah.. :)

aku hrp ak jumpe soulmate aku satu ari nanti.. amin..

Cik Zizee on June 3, 2009 at 1:22 PM said...

ntah...
aku tak kenal pon myself tue...
haha...
tp best kan die ckp sal blaming tue...haha...

sembahyang istikharah?
adoi..
sembahyang wajib pon lobang2...
huhu...biler nak insaf pon taktau...
susah kan kalo situation cenggitu kan...

amin jugak...

dzuls86 on June 3, 2009 at 2:57 PM said...

seronok kan dilamun cinta???sudah lama aku xmerasakan keseronokkan itu!

Cik Zizee on June 3, 2009 at 5:13 PM said...

hahahaha...
dilamun cinta mmg best...
manis jer...
tp kadang2 ader gak rase pahitnyer kan cinta nie...

Alchemist said...

"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master..."

— Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia)

Cik Zizee on June 4, 2009 at 3:49 AM said...

Alchemist!
I love ur comment!
tqvm...

LeaLOLiC on June 5, 2009 at 12:27 PM said...

ur GF???daMn shiT!!!!
HELLO!!!!
wHat aBout MARLIANA chuMel waHai jiJah???!!!
SEE YOU IN COURT!!!
teeeeeeettttt!

Cik Zizee on June 5, 2009 at 10:55 PM said...

haha...
si marliana nie...
selalu terperangkap dlm situasi begitu?

diyadeary on June 6, 2009 at 1:59 AM said...

aku rindu nak rasakan kasih yang luhur. erm.. :'(

Cik Zizee on June 6, 2009 at 9:26 PM said...

huhu...
poor my Dya...
Alalala...Mr. Selimut Hati kan ader...
Die tue segan2 lg kot nak kasi kasih sayang kat kau..
Nnt sekali die kasi, terkesima kau Dya..hehehe

 

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